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Anxiety: Why it can be a good thing for your child.

Anxiety: Why it can be a good thing for your child.

Life Coaching

The HIDDEN BENEFIT behind your child’s anxiety

Stop listening to the naysayers implying something is wrong with your child.

Nothing is wrong with your child.

In fact, I am here to tell you…

YOU have a VERY SPECIAL CHILD.

And no, I am not going to sell you on, “Each child is special and unique and blah, blah, blah.”

INSTEAD…

…I will tell you the TRUTH that eludes most people who have no clue about how life works.

I know, because as a kid I had anxiety and it wasn’t until I was in my mid 20’s I figured out how to overcome anxiety and START LOVING LIFE.

AND not only did I teach MYSELF how to be HAPPY…

…BUT I ALSO LEARNED HOW TO VIEW LIFE in A VERY DIFFERENT WAY.

And guess what…

…It was a TOTAL GAME CHANGER FOR ME and it can be for YOUR CHILD as well.

Here’s why it’s important for you to know…

…you have a VERY POWERFUL CHILD with MORE POTENTIAL THAN YOU EVEN REALIZE.

BUT your child needs to learn how to HARNESS anxiety in the RIGHT way.

Because when anxiety is properly addressed, AMAZING THINGS will start to happen.

You see…

YOUR CHILD IS A POWERFUL FOCUSER.

Which means your child has the uncanny ability to focus in a STRONGER way than most adults!

This is an AMAZING GIFT because in life, everything you create is a result of your thoughts AND FOCUSED ATTENTION.

The problem lies…

In that your child has established a pattern of COMPETING POSITIVE AND NEGATIVE thoughts (unknowingly of course) which has created:

BIG TIME EMOTIONAL CONFLICT, manifesting extreme highs AND lows (sometimes for no reason at all).  Combined with fear, emotional distress and insecurity, this is what causes ANXIETY.

Sound familiar?

BUT the GREAT NEWS is…

…If your child learns to HARNESS thoughts in a POSITIVE DIRECTION, utilizing the STRONG POWER OF FOCUS…

…Your child will start thinking POSITIVELY about EVERYTHING (regardless of outside negative influences or situations).

Imagine…

…Your child finally feeling:

HAPPY, CONFIDENT and EXCITED about LIFE!??

Don’t allow your child to suffer from all those negative emotions for no good reason.

Instead give your child the OPPORTUNITY to TRANSFORM anxiety from a NEGATIVE EXPERIENCE into a POSITIVE, LIFE CHANGING CALLING and understand: the POWER of POSITIVITY.

“With a positive perspective in life, you can achieve anything.”

Start Loving Life®

For more information on how your child can overcome anxiety and Start Loving Life in 30 days, call/email me at (516) 340-0378, connie@startlovinglife.com.

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XOXO
Connie

Connie Henriquez is a Teen Life Coach who works with kids & teens who suffer from anxiety and common childhood insecurities. Her specialty includes teaching them how to be confident, happy, make better decisions and LOVE their LIFE in as little as 30 days (regardless of what they have experienced in their past). For more information call (516) 340-0378.

 

Everything you need to know about having a smart kid.

Everything you need to know about having a smart kid.

Parents

Your kid is smart.

Even if others say differently.

Smart is defined in so many ways.

Your kid doesn’t have to be a genius to be smart.

Your kid doesn’t have to get straight A’s to be smart.

YOU make your kid smart…

…by recognizing ALL the amazing abilities they do have.

Don’t limit them by holding them to a standard of what other people say is smart.

Love your kids for who they are.

Love your kids for who they are becoming.

And most of all teach your kids that smart is not the ability to know, smart is the ability to love.

Teach them to love themselves.

And the smartness that is really them will be the smartest thing they will ever need to know.

Be a smart parent.

Teach smart by teaching them how to Start Loving Life®…at an early age.

XOXO
~Connie

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What your school is NOT telling you about bullying.

What your school is NOT telling you about bullying.

Life Coaching

If you are against bullying you are going about life the wrong way.

Shocker, I know.  But here’s a fact: You can’t fight ANYTHING and win.

Fighting of any kind is NOT beneficial.  Most people would disagree, but those are typically the ones fighting anything and everything.

Here’s a little secret:  Whatever you give your attention to gets bigger.  That’s right, bigger.  I didn’t say better.  I said bigger.

And if you are focused on something you do not want, that also gets bigger.

Sounds like wasted energy to me.

But that’s only because most people don’t realize that in order to affect anything positively in life (meaning achieving the ideal outcome) you must focus on what you want.  NOT the lack of it.

Therefore, don’t be against bullying, because that is the problem.  Instead, be for the solution which is instilling HARDCORE confidence in your kid, because when (and if) the bully comes around your kid will be so in-tune with who they are, they won’t even care.

See the power in that?

And this doesn’t just go for kids or bullies.  It goes for life.

Because sometimes the bully can be a friend, sibling, sometimes the bully can be a boss.

Either way it doesn’t matter.

Because when you believe in yourself.

The only opinion of you that matters…

Is your OWN.

Stop Anti-bullying and instead, START LOVING LIFE®.

XOXO
Connie

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