(516) 340-0378 Woodbury, New York
Start Loving Life with Connie

Teen Life Coaching

If your teen daughter is in therapy OR you’re considering putting her in therapy you MUST READ THIS FIRST.


Start Loving Life with Connie Henriquez’s teen life coaching program is very different from traditional therapy. Connie’s approach is unique in that she believes:

  • Your child can learn how to be happy, confident and love life in 30 days. That’s it. As a result Connie’s programs are ONLY 30 days.
  • No child should be in therapy for years and years. Talking about problems (of any kind) perpetuates more problems in life.
  • Creating a positive mindset at an early age is the answer to all their problems. It’s that simple.
  • Personal development is the only investment that guarantees a return. With a positive perspective in life, you can accomplish anything.


 Is Start Loving Life coaching right for your teen?


Start Loving Life is a SIMPLE, FUN, POSITIVE based life coaching system created by Connie Henriquez specifically for teen girls.  Connie’s Start Loving Life teen coaching system includes powerful tools and techniques to teach your daughter self confidence, self esteem and self appreciation in as little as 30 days.


As a result, your daughter will be happy, make better choices and attract new positive opportunities that will greatly impact her entire life and course of development.  Your daughter will also have a better understanding of her emotions and how to effectively handle situations/problems most teens face in a positive way.


During Start Loving Life coaching, your child will discover how to be confident and happy regardless of peer pressure or outside influences including:


  • How to think positive thoughts that are beneficial to her health and happiness versus thoughts that are negative which negatively impacts her self esteem.
  • How to process her emotions positively in order to overcome the feeling of uneasiness, anxiety and/or depressive mood swings at home or in social settings.
  • How to handle problems in a positive manner.
  • How to create more positive experiences.
  • How to inspire her to try new things.
  • How to create better friendships.
  • How to embrace her talents and uniqueness which boosts self confidence.
  • Appreciate and honor herself regardless of her past; making way for a promising, bright future.


Connie’s Start Loving Life coaching system teaches your child how to connect to her intuitive self, guiding her to the love, self appreciation, worthiness and confidence that is intuitively natural to her. Give your child the benefit of how to Start Loving Life…


For a no cost 15 minute consultation with Connie call (516) 340-0378 


Frequently Asked Questions


What is the difference between sending my child to a therapist versus Start Loving Life?


Connie’s Start Loving Life coaching philosophy is fun, quick and easy to understand.  Her specialty is teaching the art of positive thinking. Connie’s goal is to teach your child how to Start Loving Life in as little as 30 days and also offers the additional option of future maintenance sessions, group classes or advanced programs as your child develops.  It’s as simple as that.  Plus Connie teaches your child how to think on purpose and be happy rather than focus on problems.


Connie also practices what she preaches in regards to how to Start Loving Life.  Everything she teaches is based on her own personal discovery of how to be happy and create an amazing life (something she wishes she knew as a teen).  That’s why she is so passionate about sharing her philosophy with kids at an early age so they can get a head start at being happy and feeling confident in life.


Here’s what Connie says about choosing a therapist or life coach: 

“Regardless of whether you choose a life coach or therapist for your child it is super important to choose someone who is all ready loving life, happy, positive and practices what they preach. 


Regardless of someone’s credentials never send your child to learn how to be happy and confident from someone who is not.  Kids are intuitive. The energy and attitude of a life coach or therapist determines whether your child will be receptive and/or respect the advice given.”


For a no cost consultation with Connie call (516) 340-0378 


My child can be very angry at times; how can Start Loving Life help?


Anger is a very healthy emotion and should be treated in a very delicate manner.  During Start Loving Life coaching, your child will have a new understanding of her emotions and the benefit of each emotion as it relates to “being happy”.  Many times, it is recommended that anger be “managed” but Connie disagrees. 

Anger is a very valid emotion that only serves to indicate negative thinking. That’s it. Start Loving Life teaches your child how to recognize the emotion of being angry and how to quickly move along the emotional scale to release the feeling of anger to relief.


My child has an occasional outburst; how can Start Loving Life help?


Children act out for one reason only.  They feel a loss of freedom in who they are and what they can do.  Using the Start Loving Life philosophy, Connie teaches your child how to think in a way that will open her intuitive self and help understand that personal freedom is a “feeling” not a condition.  Your child will also learn how to focus thoughts in a positive way, contributing to greater self confidence.


My child talks back to me? How can Start Loving Life help?


This is a very common scenario amongst teens and their parents and in Connie’s experience the most misunderstood.  Often children do not understand the meaning behind their emotions.  Therefore they do not know how to process their emotions which creates a feeling of frustration (and powerlessness) which results in your child speaking (or reacting) in a manner that is undesirable. 

One thing to remember is that when someone is rude to you (including your child), it never has to do with you but always with them and how they are feeling on the inside.  For example, your child may have pent up emotions and unfortunately as a parent you bear the grunt of their not knowing how to handle those emotions.

This then leads to you (as the parent) triggering their sensitivity in their feeling of frustration and they tend to lash out.  I know this is hard to hear, but you cannot take what they say personally.  Instead understand your child is feeling frustration and confusion and really asking for space to somehow figure out what they are feeling.

Start Loving Life helps your child understand emotions and offers helpful ways to process them early on. 

For a no cost consultation with Connie call (516) 340-0378


Start Loving Life Coaching Session/Program


How can my child get started?


The 1st step: Schedule your child’s Start Loving Life Discovery Session with Connie – click here

This initial session is 60 minutes where a rapport is developed between your child and Connie to ensure a good fit.  The session begins with a brief discussion with both the parent and child about the desired result.  The rest of the session is then centered around your child allowing Connie to have a better understanding of what your child is feeling and how she can help. At the conclusion of the initial Start Loving Life Discovery Session, Connie will then recap with both of you (the parent) and your child the best plan of action which may include periodic sessions or the specific fast track program “30 Days to Happy” to ensure the best results.

Connie believes in her Start Loving Life coaching 100% but if for any reason she feels that your child isn’t ready for coaching, she will share that as well.


How does Start Loving Life’s “30 Days to Happy” coaching program work?


The key to success for any type of change is consistency.  Therefore programs are extremely effective in providing your child with the most effective tools to ensure the best results in confidence building and feeling happy.


Upon completion of the Start Loving Life Discovery Session, Connie will recommend the appropriate program and/or sessions based on the initial session.


In working with children over the last 10 years, Connie has discovered that kids quickly learn the basics of how to Start Loving Life!  As a result, Connie created her fast track signature system, Start Loving Life’s “30 Days to Happy” coaching program.


The program includes weekly sessions where Connie discusses your child’s experiences (whether it be school, friend or home related) and a topic specific to the program.  Your child will also leave each session with FUN, SIMPLE homework to complete daily between sessions. This creates consistency in adopting a new positive mindset.


For a no cost consultation with Connie call (516) 340-0378

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